You can customize it by clicking settings ico (next to selected dimension).
Then you see:
This setting can be saved using a browser bookmark, as customization details are in the URL.
Matching "others"
You can't exclude something from a match, but you can add matching regexp rule below.
Interpretation:
- name 'english' every value from 'language' dimension which contains 'en'
- name 'french' every value from 'language' dimension (subset without matches from first rule) which contains 'fr'
- name 'others' every value from 'language' dimension (subset without matches from 1st and 2nd rule) which contains or not any char
About regexp in GA: https://support.google.com/analytics/answer/1034324?hl=en